Anxiety around Chemotherapy
Feeling fearful, nervous, or anxious about chemotherapy is common and understandable. These feelings are a natural response to a challenging situation.
There are several reasons people feel anxious before treatment:
Fear of the unknown: Not knowing what side effects may occur or how your body will respond.
Worry about effectiveness: Concerns that treatment may not work or that cancer might return.
Information overload: Consent forms list every possible side effect, and the medical jargon can be confusing.
Feeling alone: Uncertainty about who to turn to for help or how much support you will have at home.
Role changes: If you are used to being a caregiver, it can feel unsettling to need help yourself.
Acknowledging these feelings and understanding their causes can help in managing them. Here are some coping strategies for common emotions:
Sadness or loneliness: Connecting with a support network, whether through friends, family, or a support group, can provide comfort. Scheduling a small activity, such as a coffee outing, after an appointment may offer something positive to anticipate.
Anger or frustration: Expressing emotions through conversation or journaling can prevent them from building up or affecting relationships.
Anxiety or stress: Stress-reduction techniques such as meditation, yoga, or setting aside time for relaxation can be beneficial.
Be prepared: Obtain the information you need about your illness and treatment so you have a good idea about what to expect. Knowing can alleviate a lot of stress.
Talk to your oncology team: Keep the lines of communication open with your oncology care team and speak openly about your expectations and fears. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Writing down any questions may be a helpful prompt. Some people worry about hair loss, fatigue, or nausea. Your medical team can address your concerns. Be careful about seeking information online, as while the internet may be helpful, incorrect and negative information can cause needless anxiety.
Speak up about what you need: Discuss your needs with friends and family, as so many people want to help but don’t know how. Small things can make a huge difference.
Arrange for help at work: If you are in employment, it is important to get the help you need, whether it is time off or flexible hours.
Prepare a comfort bag to take with you: Take a bag of goodies to set a positive mood and make it easier for you during treatment. A music player with headphones is a great idea. Think of the personal items you may want right next to you and keep them packed—warm clothes, reading material, special snacks, and drinks.
Engage in self-care: Rest, eat, socialise, work—do what is right for you. Practice relaxation techniques to manage anxiety, including yoga and meditation or any hobbies you find relaxing and pleasurable.
Arrive for your appointment in good time: Arriving at the department early may help you feel more settled.
Following treatment, you are likely to feel tired both physically and psychologically. Allowing yourself time to rest and process what you have been through will be important. Listening to your body will also be helpful in knowing when you feel physically able to do things and when things feel like too much.
Possible side effects of having chemotherapy will have been discussed prior to the treatment. It is important to remember that everyone is different and may react to chemotherapy in different ways.
After treatment, you may experience several emotions that can feel overwhelming and at times difficult to manage. Talking to a friend or family member about your experience and how it has left you feeling can be helpful. If you are not someone who finds talking helpful, writing down your thoughts and feelings is a good alternative.
Every person experiences chemotherapy differently, both physically and emotionally. Each person experiences side effects from chemotherapy differently, and different chemotherapy drugs cause different side effects. Fortunately, as the science of cancer treatment has advanced, so has the science of managing treatment side effects.